Sister of My Heart
By Chitra Banerjee Divakaruni. Anchor Press, March 1999.
Reviewed by Julie Rajan
Based on the short story, The Ultrasound from her first prose
work, Arranged Marriage Stories (Anchor Books, 1995), Divakaruni's
latest novel Sister of My Heart details an emotional journey of
love between Sudha and Anju, two girls who are born only minutes apart.
The story unfolds in Anju's house, an upper class residence in Calcutta,
in which both girls live with their respective mothers, Anju's aunt, Ramur
Ma, and the driver, Singhji. Besides Singhji, the house is filled only
with females as Sudha and Anju's fathers, cousins themselves, have died
together in a strange event before both girls were born. After the tragic
accident, because Sudha and her mom had no other family and no means of
sustaining themselves economically, they permanently resided with Anju
and her family.
The strong emotional bond between both girls is evident from childhood.
Although their love for one another is on an equal plane, their socio-economic
backgrounds are not. Because her family is wealthy and
socially prominent, Anju has more social and economic advantages than
Sudha. Anju's family's wealth and social position allow her to transcend
the
restrictive demands of traditional Hindu Indian female gender notions,
which
might eventually restrict her to mainly fulfilling the roles of wife
and mother. Hence, Anju is privileged to be able to concentrate on
her studies and to dream of a career. On the other hand, Sudha and her
mom are not economically independent and, instead, must depend on the good
graces of
Anju's family for survival. Because she is socially and economically
disadvantaged, she is more likely to succumb to restrictive traditional
Hindu-Indian gender norms; in fact, Sudha's only advantage is her physical
beauty, which can only help her to survive within the framework of
traditional Hindu-Indian gender norms by securing a 'good' husband.
Yet,
despite their differences, both girls laugh, cry, and think as one
entity---that is, until Sudha learns the dark secret about her father,
her
mother, and her existence. The truth haunts Sudha and drives her away
from Anju, slowly alienating both girls from one another as they enter
adulthood and separate from each other physically and, to an extent, emotionally
after marriage.
I like the novel's simplicity as it does not try to do 2000 things at
once.
The plot focuses on the relationship between the two young girls, from
the
shared experiences of their youth to the varied experiences of their
married
lives. Few side plots stray from the main story, and, as a result,
the
characters are developed well and the story seems to run its course
smoothly. The simplicity of the plot also allows Divakaruni to
more
thoroughly explore themes of womanhood, such as the limits of female
social and economic freedom as a wife in and outside of India. In
addition, the
novel's focus on female characters forced me to re-visit and re-frame
common theories of South Asian female identity solely in terms of female-female
relationships.
I also thought that in some ways, the relationship between Anju and
Sudha
resembled the strained, pseudo-sexual relationship between the two
male
characters of Gene and Finny, respectively, in John Knowles' novel,
A
Separate Peace. Although Knowles makes no explicit reference to
homosexuality in his novel, he insinuates Gene's latent homosexual
love for
Finny through reference to Gene's admiration of Finny's body and
descriptions of Finny as "too good to be true." Although, the characters
are not equal in terms of physical beauty, charm, etc. and although
their
friendship is often strained by Gene's jealousy of Finny's charm and
beauty,
the relationship between the two boys is spurred by their 'need' for
each
other. Likewise, Anju and Sudha's strained sisterly love is spurred
by
their 'need' for one another, and although, like Knowles, Divakaruni
never
explicitly refers to a homosexual relationship between the two girls,
she
does not dismiss it. This is evidenced by the following scene in which
she
creates a direct, yet subtle, connection between Anju's admiration
of
Sudha's physical beauty and jealousy of Sudha's lover, Ashok:
It happens, says Sudha dreamily. Dressed only in her petticoat. Her
open hair spilling like black water over her bare breasts, she goes to
stand at the window... "I know why peacocks dance in the rain, don't you?"
says my heartbreakingly beautiful cousin. Ashok, I [Anju] think,
if you could only see her [Sudha] like this! Then I'm jealously glad
he can't. (Chapter 9)
The subtle homosexuality of such scenes is reenforced by the numerous
discussions in which the girls intimately discuss their love and need
for
one another. I must note that I am aware that relationships between
men and between women in India are often more intimate than they are in
Western
culture and that this intimacy is in no way meant to convey homosexuality;
for example, men in certain parts of India may hold hands in public
as a
sign of friendship. Hence, to some readers, Sudha and Anju's relationship
may appear to be heterosexual. Yet, as a South Asian raised in the
United
States, I could not help thinking that this relationship crossed all
boundaries of heterosexual intimacy, both South Asian and American, of
which I am aware. Something to think about!
Some readers may be turned off by the novel's use of standard South
Asian
clichés. The scenes of forbidden love, demanding parental
expectations,
and difficult in-laws were, indeed, predictable. However, in Divakaruni's
defense, I must say that she has an uncanny way of rescuing the cliché
from
its superficiality. Divakaruni is able to divert the reader's focus
from the clichés through the beauty of her writing. Her poetic language,
elaborate descriptions, and symbolism really do place the otherwise cliché
themes on a higher level.
Yet even Divakaruni's poetic skills could not rescue some portions of
the
novel from bordering on the unbelievable. Although Divakaruni does
a good job of creating suspense and can draw the reader through the novel
simply by its suspense, her resolution of it is weak. I especially
found the end of
the novel, concerning Singhji, to be disappointing and also feel that
Divakaruni stretched things a bit when she created the basis of the
story,
concerning the deaths of Anju and Sudha's fathers. It seems that
in both
instances, Divakaruni is trying to rescue the novel from being ordinary.
Ironically, in her attempts to make the novel unique, she seems to have
made it melodramatic, and, hence, stereotypic of South Asian movies. I
wish Divakaruni had simply developed the story between the two sisters
without trying to create grandeur where it was not needed.
Regardless, this is a highly emotional and beautifully written novel.
You
will find yourself reading it, for its sheer poetic prose, if nothing
else.
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